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Shabbat Parashat Vayigash 5776Parashat Hashavua: “Sending Everyone Out”Harav Yosef CarmelBefore Yosef revealed his identity to his brothers, he commanded the members of his court: “Send everyone out from before me” (Bereishit 45:1). We will try to explain why it was so important to Yosef to be alone with his brothers. The midrash (Sechel Tov, Bereishit 45) explains that this was done for the needs of modesty. As Yosef was going to prove his identity by showing he was circumcised, he did not want his assistants to see what was not necessary for them to see. The simple explanation, of course, is that Yosef wanted to protect his brothers from embarrassment at the awkward situation that was to occur, which would include no small amount of explicit or implicit rebuke. Rishonim put stress on the rebuke, including practical ramifications, stemming from it, other than the brothers’ simple embarrassment. The Ramban says that upon hearing of Yosef’s sale, the Egyptians would view the brothers as betrayers and would reason that if that is the way they treated their own brother, they certainly could not be trusted to live in The Da’at Zekeinim echoes this idea but also extends it, in showing how the matter of the sale was a bigger secret than we might assume. They claim that not only did Yaakov not know about the sale, but even Binyamin, who was not with his brothers at the time, did not know about it. In fact, they claim that Yosef broke his speech of revelation into two. At first, he just said: “I am Yosef, is my father still alive?” (Bereishit 45:3). Before he asked his brothers to approach him and mentioned the sale (ibid. 4), he had Binyamin go elsewhere so he would not hear about the sale. That way, they would not have to be embarrassed from Binyamin, and he would not know anything he should not tell Yaakov. In fact, the accounts of the events are vague on the question of how he ended up in One who does talk about “the sale of a tzaddik for shoes” is the navi Amos (2:6). Chazal continue that theme and connect the destruction of the two In general this idea should be a reminder. Even if one attacks another with claims of doing justice, he should make sure that he is not also trying to profit, including monetarily, from the matter. Top of page
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